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SUTRA MAGAZINE asked:


Being Indian; be it in India, South Africa, or anywhere else in the world; our roots are grounded in conservative layers of impermeable teachings. We are in the 21st century and even so, our traditionalist principals and values remain. This is a strong point in our culture, but also a weakness. It is important to note that principals should remain steadfast only if they are commendable and impartial.

SUTRA looks back at the life of (and recognizes) the first and, to date most prominent gay activist in India.

Ashok Row Kavi was born on 1 June 1947, in Mumbai. He was educated in Mumbai’s “Bombay Scottish High School”, and then moved on to Bombay University where he achieved his Honors in Chemistry.

He later achieved a diploma in Theology from the Ramakrishna Math, at which stage he trained to be a monk. During this period he realized his homosexuality and had come to accept it. Ashok came out in 1868, when he did an interview in Savvy magazine.

SUTRA looks at an extract from an interview with Ashok Row Kavi, and Perry Brass, author of How to Survive Your Own Gay Life:

Can you tell us something about yourself? How did you end up being virtually the only openly gay man in India to speak out on the HIV issue there?

Ashok Row Kavi: “I was born in Bombay on June 1st, 1947, a premature baby not expected to live. Amma and Anna (Mom and Dad) were Brahmin refugees fleeing poverty in South India. Anna finally became a leading light in Bollywood (India’s Hollywood) and a founding member of the Indian Motion Pictures’ Producers’ Association.

I was educated in Mumbai’s elite Bombay Scottish High School from whose Secondary School I graduated. I got an Honours in Chemistry from Bombay University after two years doing textile engineering at the prestigious Victoria Jubilee Technical Institute (VJTI) in Bombay.

I did my diploma in religion and comparative theology from the Ramakrishna Math where I trained to be a monk. I also discovered my gay nature there and was given sensible counseling for it by the monks. “Accept it as natural. Whatever occurs in nature is natural though it may not be common,” advised my counselor, Swami Harshananda.

I returned from the monastery to do a post graduate in Journalism while working as a trainee in the Free Press Journal, and finally joined the “Indian Express” chain of newspapers in Bombay. I started India’s first Playboy clone, Debonair, with my English friend Anthony Van Braband in 1971.

I left the Express to start India’s first morning tabloid, The Daily in 1981, left that to become city editor of my home ground newspaper, Free Press Journal. I then became bureau chief of India’s newsweekly, The Week. There I came out, creating a ruckus in the conservative Christian management.

I quit journalism in 1990, after attending the Fifth International AIDS Conference in 1989 at Montreal, where I was aghast to see American gay men fighting for their very lives to get funding to fight AIDS.

I had come out openly as a gay man in 1986 (while at The Week), when I did an interview in Savvy, one of India’s most controversial feminist magazines, explaining what “gay” really meant. It was not only a first but started a furore because of the plain speaking I did about the numbers [of Indian men”> involved…

Before that I used to review books on homosexuality, and thus gave a good inkling that I was queer from the insights I had into the homosexual world in India. Coming out was a natural defense mechanism, but I now wonder. So many people have forgotten my long innings in journalism, human rights and my reportage in such famous cases like the Bhopal Gas Tragedy, where I was one of the first journalists to get in while thousands were dying.

I’ve become just a “gay activist,” which is a very uni-dimensional look at my life. I have interests in religion, social biology, sexuality, science and even astronomy. I have reported developments in India’s atomic energy establishment, the speeches of Indira Gandhi and her downfall, done court reporting, reported death and disaster on a huge scale. I am not just a gay activist: I am India spanning 50 years of her 5,000 year old civilization. A sliver of it, but a good representative one, no doubt.” – Mr. Ashok Row Kavi

Shayla Moore asked:


Anniversaries on Valentines Day are always a special event. Of course, they can also be nerve-wracking at times. Valentines Day is a special day on its own, but to add in an anniversary there is some pressure, to make sure things are just perfect. Of course, with a little thought and planning you will be sure to create the right setting, mood, and provide just the right presents to create the perfect Valentines Anniversary Celebration.

There are plenty of ways to celebrate. The trick will be finding the one that will suit your relationship. Take some time to consider your goals for this anniversary. Do you want to surprise her? Do you want to give her something that you normally do not? Do you want to focus more on tradition and less on hype and surprise? You can do any or all of these things depending on what you are interested in accomplishing.

Throw a Celebration

If you want to impress your lover throw a party celebrating both Valentines Day and your Anniversary all in one shot. For this special party you could invite your best couple friends to a small dinner party. Offer music and dancing, a gourmet meal, and a Valentine motif with Cupid, clouds, and hearts and arrows all around. This will be sure to be a great party with lots of fun for everyone. Of course, you could always not have the dinner and offer aphrodisiac snacks and romantic party games instead.

Take your lover on Vacation

Go on a cruise or zip away to the mountains, the beach, or another state this holiday. Your lover will delight in the impromptu chance to be whisked away to a new location where it will be just you and them for as long as possible. You can spend your anniversary making love and basking in the scenic views of a new location. Not only will this be an excellent choice for your anniversary it will also give you some much needed relaxation.

Adult Lottery

As you are celebrating two special events, your anniversary and Valentines Day, you may end up buying numerous gifts to suit the separate occasion. If you are feeling adventurous you could agree to make one of those gifts a couple’s gift. Choose some of the most erotic and enjoyable toys and adult products you might want to own and toss the names into a hat. Agree to pick out one (or more), and whatever you draw you can purchase for your toy box.

Some ideas for the Adult Lottery could be:

Vibrators

Restraints

Liberator Furniture

Massage Kits

Bondage Kits

Lingerie Shopping Sprees (Make sure to add a price limit!)

Fascinator Throes

Dildos

Bath Toys

These are just a few of the great ways that you can successfully celebrate your anniversary and Valentines on the same day. Whether you choose to celebrate this way every year, making it a tradition, or you do something new every year, your lover will be sure to love these fun and heartfelt ideas used to celebrate your special day.

Brisa Rojas asked:


Another day another celebrity sex tape – it appears that the Hollywood stars of today are more famous for their homemade videos than their blockbusters – not that were complaining! Ever since Pammy and Tommy stripped off and shagged senseless on their honeymoon (while thoughtfully recording the sex session for the rest of us to enjoy), celebrity sex tapes have become so huge that we felt they deserved their own red carpet award ceremony. And so here you have it – RedHotPie’s Top Celebrity Sex Tapes.

10. Joanie ‘Chyna Doll’ Laurer and Sean ‘X-Pac’ Waltman in One Night in China

This is quite possibly the weirdest sexual display in the history of mankind. It’s quite a long ride too showcasing the former pro-wrestlers Chyna Dolls and X-Pac’s sporting stamina. Chyna looks like a crazed member of the Village People hyped up on drugs and X-Pacs ridiculous lace-up leather pants take forever to peal off. Very funny if not super randy.

9. Tonya Harding and Jeff Gillooly in Tonya and Jeff’s Wedding Night

Make sure you’re near a bathroom when you’re watching this because it’s one of those celebrity sex tapes that should never have been made let alone subjected to the general public. The most entertaining parts are the 80s outfits complete with tacky frou frou wedding dress and Jeff’s chunky ‘stache. It’s cheesy old school porn all the way with a sloppy blow job and a hilarious attempt at the 69 position… watch at your own risk!

8. Dustin Diamond and Two Unknown Hotties in Screeched

You remember Screech, he was the nerdy one in 90s teen sitcom Saved By the Bell. In this film, he shows us that he’s well and truly grown up by referring to himself as “The D-Man” before having a feisty threesome with a bride to be and her maid of honour. In a rather amusing twist, the two girls seem much more interested in each other than in Screech who gives a running commentary on technique and form. This may be one of those times where the mute button comes in handy.

7. Jenna Lewis and Travis Wolfe in Let’s Get Physical

Jenna Lewis may have become a celebrity when she won over audiences on Survivor but it was her sex tape made with husband Travis Lewis that truly won the public’s heart. She starts off on the bed while Travis goes down on her, eventually ending up in all sorts of sexual positions that demonstrate why she was so successful on the physically grueling reality TV show.

6. Kim Kardashian and Ray J in Kim Kardashian, Superstar

Kim Kardashian was little known outside gossip circles and as the gal pal of Paris Hilton until the launch of her pornographic home video that she had made with then-boyfriend, rapper Ray J (the brother of singer Brandy) was announced. Kim and Ray are both super hot which is why this video is extra sexy to watch, plus you get a good look at Kim’s famous behind which is almost more famous than she is.

5. Edison Chen and Every Asian Actress Out There in Someone Stole my Computer

This sex scandal rocked Hong Kong’s Hollywood especially because it involved over 20 super sexy actresses and only one very, very, very lucky actor. Super player Edison Chen had apparently bedded every Asian actress out there and his computer (which was stolen) had the 1,300 photos and videos to prove it. Reading like the roll call for a Honkywood red carpet special, the starlets implicated included Bobo Chan Man, Cecilia Cheung Pak Chi, Gillian Chung, Gillian Chung Yun-Tung, Joey Yung, Yu Chiu, Vincy Yeung, Cecilia Cheung, Yumiko Cheng, Mandy Chen, BoBo Chen, Rachel Ngan, Candice Chan, Jolin Tsai, Maggie Q, and some say even Japanese star Chiaki Kuriyama… just to name a few…

4. Colin Farrell and Nicole Narain in Colin Bangs the Playmate

This tape gets straight to the point with no lusty strip tease or anything else to settle you in – it’s all sex baby! With the two sexiest celeb bodies you’re likely to see romping away with each other, this is one hot hot hot sex tape that is worthy of an Oscar. While Colin’s one liners are hilarious (complete with Irish accent), there are plenty of moves to leave you feeling randy, especially the scene with a little reverse cowgirl action.

3. Keeley Hazell and Lloyd Miller in Keeley’s Spanish Holiday Sex Tape

If Keeley Hazell’s naked body in the heat of action isn’t enough to make you want to watch this movie (what is wrong with you? Keeley’s so HOT!!), then her amazing blowjob expertise should be enough of a reason to press play. Sure there are probably too many shots of Lloyd’s behind in the footage but those extended glimpses of Keeley’s beautiful body are well worth it.

2. Paris Hilton and Rick Salomon in One Night in Paris

When you have no talent in anything and you’re a bored, rich, young, famous girl desperate for attention and fame, what do you do? You make a porn video. At least that’s what Paris Hilton and her then boyfriend Rick Salomon did. This celebrity sex tape was so notorious that it actually propelled Paris into an international star. But her sex scandals don’t end there. In 2007 Paris didn’t pay her storage bill and her personal belongings were then auctioned off including videos that were later leaked online showing her naked and romping with an ex boyfriend.

1. Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee in Pam and Tommy Lee: Hardcore and Uncensored

It was the home made movie that launched a thousand celebrity sex scandals – Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee frolicking in the sun and water while on honeymoon. It shows scenes of Pammy giving Tommy a blow job in a car, and before long, she masturbates whilst sitting on the top deck right before Tommy joins in on the action. The final scenes involve a close up of Tommy entering his new bride. But Pammy’s list of home made videos doesn’t end there… in 2005 she has another sex tape circulating on the internet showcasing her sexual exploits with Poison singer Bret Michaels.

Irene Thebeauty asked:


The average conversation going on in sex chat rooms are definitely not about the weather or if Clinton or Obama will make a better Democratic candidate. There is also no talk about movies, celebrity gossip or the latest reality stars. The conversation in adult chat rooms is much more exciting, fun and very sexy. While some adults like to discuss their secret sex fantasies others likes to indulge in a little online role play.

Talking about your sexual fantasies in a sex chat room can have huge advantages for your sex life. Not only will you feel more comfortable to live out these fantasies with your sex partner but you will also learn about other sexual fantasies and maybe discover a different side of you. If you want to try domination in the bedroom but you are to scared then you can start by being submissive in a chat room and doing everything that the dominatrix tells you to do.

A single lady in her 30’s who joined the swingers scene a few years ago claims that she meets all her sexual partners in online chat rooms. She feels that it is much safer to meet strangers in a safe and secure environment as opposed to meeting them in a bar or a club. It’s not only single people that hang out in adult chat rooms but many mature couples find other couples and single adults in this way.

So why do adults and especially women feel safer having fun in a sex chat room? The main reason is that you can be anonymous in an adult chat room. You can choose a swingers name and create your own identity and even upload any picture that you want. You also don’t have to speak to people that you don’t like and you can end a conversation at any time. In the same way that teens like to sms flirt adults prefer flirting online. Most adults would never repeat the same naughty conversations that they have in chat rooms in real life.

Sex chat rooms have also evolved over the years. Adults can now invite other members to join them in private chat rooms where they can use webcams, microphones and sex toys to have adult fun. The chat rooms are also categorized so that there people from the same areas and with the same sexual preferences can chat. For example there are chat rooms for gays, lesbians, bi’s, transvestites, interracial swingers, swinging couples, people living in the UK, US, Spain and so on.

The next time somebody wants to talk weather or politics with you, be kind enough to direct them to a sex chat room. You will both have so much fun!

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